subject: Making Use of Sextoys to Spice Up Your Marriage [print this page] At the time when you just got married with your spouse, your sex life would usually be steaming hot. There may be times when you cannot wait to get off from work since you are anticipating another night of lovemaking. However, as time passes by, especially when you already got kids, your sex life may eventually decline. Perhaps, the reason could be that both of you are already juggling both work and family obligations. One would be assigned to wake up real early in the morning to prepare your kid or kids for school, while your spouse will be the one to help the kids in their daily assignments. By the time you tuck your kids to bed and get inside your own bedroom, both of you may already be too tired to even think of sex. You may prefer to watch the television, while she would want to finish reading her novel. Keep in mind though that having a good sex life with your spouse is one way to maintain a good wife and husband relationship. Therefore, you should find ways to spice up your sex life again such as making use of sextoys. You and your spouse may have sex every now and then; but, both of you may not be too fired up about it anymore, since it becomes too boring. Doing the same things all over again may become too monotonous for you or your spouse. Therefore, you should do something new to make it more interesting and exciting. Your spouse may not be expecting you to make use of a sex toy when you make love. It may come as a pleasant surprise to her, or it may scare her off. Therefore, you have half a chance of impressing her if you won't prepare her on introducing a sex toy into your love making session. To get rid of the fifty percent chance of scaring her off, you should introduce a sex toy to your sex life in a more easy and subtle way. If you think she is open to discussing it, then you should talk to her about it. When you open the doors to communication, introducing a sex toy to your bedroom would not feel too foreign for both of you anymore. Aside from that, you can both pick out the sex toy that you want to make use. This way, you would definitely know that she approves it, before you even buy your very first sex toy. It is always best that you start it slow, so that you and your partner would not be surprised to the effects of the toys you're going to use. Slowly build up the heat, by giving her a sensual massage with the use of massage oil with a sexy scent. There are a lot of massage oils available in the market today. See it as a way to prepare you and your wife for a steaming love making session with a sex toy. Once you and your partner become more comfortable with the oil, start using your sex toy, perhaps, with a little vibrator at first. For sure, after using the sex toy once or twice, both of you would want to explore more. When this happens, do not hesitate to make use of other sextoys to continually spice up your nights with your wife.
