subject: Showing How Desperate You Are Is Why You Will Never Get Your Ex Back! [print this page] Although it is perfectly normal for you to feel as devastated as you do now that your relationship has ended, wallowing in self-pity is definitely not the way to make your ex want you back again. In fact, if you don't make an effort to get yourself out of this state of despair, it could very well be why you will never get your ex back.
The thing is your ex loved you for who you are - a well-adjusted, confident, happy person. Yes, he/she did see you upset at times, but this time you are really, really, down. If your ex sees you like this, it will make him/her feel even more upset than he/she already is after the break up.
Your ex doesn't need added misery in his/her life right now - your ex needs people around who will make him/her feel uplifted and happy again. Although your ex probably feels sorry for you right now, there is no way that he/she will want to see you now - you are too depressed.
Constantly trying to contact your ex will also drive him/her totally nuts - your ex doesn't want to talk to you right now - don't you get it? Everywhere your ex goes as well - you are hovering around in the background - this is so uncomfortable for your ex and really irritating too! Don't you realize that this is why you will never get your ex back?
Your main mission in life right now is to try and get your ex back, and you are going at it with a vengeance. All you think of are ways to see your ex - you aren't even interested in going out with your friends anymore - if your ex isn't there, then why should you be.
This is another reason why you will never get your ex back - your obsession with getting your ex back is just too much for your ex to handle. It's getting to a point where it's becoming quite scary!
Showing How Desperate You Are Is Why You Will Never Get Your Ex Back!
