subject: How to Win Your Wife's Heart After Cheating for a Second Chance at Romance [print this page] Want to know how to win your wife's heart after cheating? This is a sure fire way to get a second chance at romance but it has a few dangerous potential pitfalls you'll want to be on the lookout for. One wrong step in this delicate stage could spell disaster for your efforts. Here's what you need to do to win her heart back once and for all.
1) Woo her with words. If you're like the average man, you use as few words as possible in most of your daily conversations. In other words, this part of the process often takes a little time to work up to but the rewards are a well worth it for many men. The best way to do this is to offer sincere words that let her know how you feel. Write them down on paper in the form of a love letter or poem if you're worried about getting nervous, saying it wrong, or saying something you don't really mean by mistake. It will impress her that you went to all the effort and make her happy to know how much you really love her too.
2) Make a grand romantic gesture. This isn't about buying an expensive gift or taking an expensive trip together. Those things are nice but this is not the time or the place in your relationship for these types of gestures. What you want now is something that says romance in a way that only you could say it. Go pick a huge bouquet of flowers (make sure she isn't allergic to any from her mother or close friend), writer her a poem, sing her a song, or do some other silly but immensely romantic gesture to win her heart all over again.
3) Remind her of all the things she loved about you in the first place. Be Mr. Charming all over again. Remind her how much fun you can be on a date. Challenge and inspire her the way you did when you were dating. Give her a reason to look forward to seeing you again.
4) Let her know that you want a future with her and no one else in it. We all make mistakes. Now is the time to own up to the mistake of cheating and vow not to make similar mistakes in the future. It will make all the difference in the world as far as how she feels about herself and how she is going to allow herself to feel about you.
How to Win Your Wife's Heart After Cheating for a Second Chance at Romance