subject: 2 Essential Steps To Get Your Ex Back [print this page] When you have experienced a relationship break up with your boyfriend, you should anticipate being emotionally upset. To what degree this can be will depend on how long you were with your ex and how you felt about them. Perhaps you have made the decision to find some way to get them back. What you will require are some useful steps to get your ex back.
Being how you are emotionally distraught, you may not be thinking as clearly as you should. You can also expect your ex boyfriend to be under the same mental stress as you. Because of this it would not be a good idea to try to get him back right away. Give each of you at least 3 weeks to give yourselves time to get past this first stage of your break up.
After a couple weeks you should be getting over it but it's still on your mind. At this point go ahead and make a quick phone call to him to say hi and see how he is doing. If something you did is the cause of the break up then now would be a great time to give him an apology, and make it sincere.
Make this phone call short unless you get a good response from your ex and he is talkative. Give him the impression you are doing ok on your own, this may give him the impression he is not needed by you. This would be good for you because he will be getting curious about what you are up to. If you got a good feeling from this first call ask him if it would be ok to call him again in a week or so.
