subject: Why You Fail To Pick Up Women [print this page] Right here is a real account..Right here is a real account... Recently I was hanging out with my pal why don't we call him Joe - (name's replaced to protect the not-so-innocent!). Throughout the span of the evening, we met a couple of attractive ladies around where i live. Everything appeared quite encouraging...The one with me was really lovely and the lady with Joe looked like she was really into him. In fact, she was sending ALL the signals of attraction. All Joe had to try was make an attempt and she would be his!
So what went down? Well, after spending close to a half hour on the beach alone, Joe returns with this lady who quickly declares to her friend "We gotta leave!"
Naturally, this really *disrupted* my night! After the ladies left, I asked Joe what went down. Here is an almost word-for-word description of what he said: "Dude, we were walking hand-in-hand on the beach. I wanted to ensure she was keen on me, so I pulled out my phone and showed photos of my pussy-cat back home. Then I began talking about how much I love animals..."
I was literally Speechless! Here he was holding hands with an appealing gal alone on a beach and he starts talking about freakin' cats!!!
This chick was practically offering him the "Kiss Me" alert and Joe decides that he needs to still work on getting attraction. What's more, instead of doing something that could boost the sexual chemistry, he pulls out the "nice guy" ritual and even gets into "creepy guy" territory.
Now you might be wondering: "What does this have in common with me?" Well this story about my friend Joe left me wondering about all the small things that men do which hurt their results with gals. And as I explore on my website, you NEVER fail because of your looks, or financial situation or age.
It all comes down to your outlook when you're with a woman. In truth, Joe screwed up because he reckoned that the girl wanted a nice man, though she was already attracted to the fun, awesome guy that he often is. In essence, she preferred the fun, flirty guy that's effortlessly attractive to women. Joe failed as he second guessed his intuition and tried some pointless gimmick. When you're round ladies, you don't have to perform some fancy plan just to attract her. In fact, all you need to do is know how to have the RIGHT type of talk.
I've observed that a naturally charming guy is familiar with how to flirt. His conversation methods have that perfect balance of fun and willpower. On top of that this guy should be focused on a girl but not TOO concerned. To offer an example, here are some qualities of the attitudes that gals WANT from a man:
1)He doesn't sound excessively involved 2)He isn't reluctant to tease and be a bit irreverent 3)He behaves like a gentleman, but is not a "Sugar Daddy" 4)He enjoys his life on his own terms 5)He takes bold steps -- These are just a few qualities of an attractive man. The point I'm hoping to get is you might be screwing up with gals just because you don't offer women what they truly want in the guys they go out with.
So that you can truly succeed with women, you have to adopt all the characteristics of a high status man. Also, you need to know how to talk to women. This means flirting and creating that sexual spark that's necessary for generating attraction. So don't be just like my buddy Joe. When you're talking to a beautiful chick, pay attention to building that fun, flirty feel that can quickly attract her desire.
