subject: Dating Beautiful Women - Most Guys Think It Won't Happen, But You Will [print this page] The idea that any guy can attract and date beautiful women is about as believable to most guys as winning the lottery is. We are conditioned to believe that to date beautiful women, you have to be wealthy and tall, good looking and charming, and that if you are "lacking" any of these traits or qualities-- you are not in the same league as a beautiful woman. And I have to tell you...that's nothing but a rationalization and not the truth at all.
Of course it would be a big boost if you were wealthy. You could take a woman on a private plan and fly her to Paris for the weekend. And if you are tall, you naturally come off with alpha male traits, so of course that would be a benefit. The thing is, if you are broke and short, does that mean that you should set your sights a lot lower than the next guy? Not at all. There are ways that you can kind of make up for whatever you lack, and it can end up being nothing at all that gets in your way to attract and date beautiful women.
Here's how you can start dating beautiful women:
1. Change the way that you look at dating in general.
When most guys think about taking a woman out on a date, they will think of things like going out to dinner, or going out to the movies, and all of those traditional things that men do when they take a woman out. Basically it comes down to taking her out some place nice, spending some money on her, and "hoping" that she is attracted enough to you to get another chance to do it all over again on the second date. You need to break free from that kind of thinking, and re-invent the way that you look at dating. It's not about spending money on her and hoping that she likes you in return.
2. Set your sights on beautiful women and put yourself next to her.
You need to be able to see it in your mind that you really can date a beautiful woman. You don't have to sit and stare at good looking females and then just assume that they would never even think of dating you. Instead, put yourself next to her and create a mental picture where you really DO see yourself dating hot women. Until you do this, and until you can actually begin to believe that it is possible, you are NOT going to get the attractive women that you want.
3. Understand what women want when they meet a man.
Many times I will ask this question, what do women want in a man? Most guys cannot come up with a straight answer. They will think of one thing, then shake their head no, and come up with another idea. You need to realize that women are not looking for a guy that is logically the one that they should be with. They are looking to meet a man that makes them FEEL certain emotions. They are looking for a man that can give their life a little excitement and pleasure.
