subject: How To Prepare For Meeting With A Custody Evaluator [print this page] The entire purpose of a custody evaluator is to determine if a parent is fit to have custody of their child. For this reason, it is incredibly important to be prepared for meeting with them. There are several things one can do to prepare themselves for an evaluation. Above all, a parent must remember to remain calm. Much is on the line at a meeting like this which means it's no time to lose one's nerves. Preparation is the best way to remain calm and increase the chances of receiving child custody.
So how can one prepare for a custody evaluation? First, it's a good idea to familiarize oneself with the process by asking friends and relatives of their prior experience. One who has already gone through a custody interview will know what questions will be asked and how best to handle them. Finding anyone who has some prior experience on the matter is a great way to figure out what to expect.
Remember that there is only one chance to make a first impression. Since there is a limited amount of time in which one can make a good impression with an evaluator, it is imperative to make the most of every opportunity. This means showcasing responsibility and providing a great impression. One can do this by arriving to the interview on time or even a few minutes early. It's also helpful to dress neatly and modestly which means cleaned, pressed clothing that do not show too much skin.
Some parents are tempted to embellish the truth-or in other words, to lie. Don't do it. All statements will be checked and double checked which means the truth will come out sooner or later. The best way to prove that a parent is capable of raising children is if a parent can be completely honest. Psychological testing for child custody is something that many evaluators ask for. When this happens, it is imperative that one tells the truth as these tests are very unlikely to be fooled.
Something else that can help with the process is to take ones time and to breath. They fully expect their interviewees to be nervous. It's ok to be nervous. Don't let it gum up the works. Take all the time that is needed to answer a question. Think before speaking. If a question seems confusing, ask for clarification. Those who are methodical about their answers are those who are sincere about their answers. Indeed, those who follow these guidelines will undoubtedly have a better experience with their custody evaluator than they would have otherwise.
