subject: Picking Up Women? Here's Why You Fail! [print this page] Below is a true account..Below is a true account... A few days ago I was hanging out with my buddy let's call him Joe - (name's replaced to shield the not-so-innocent!). During the course of the evening, we met a couple of attractive ladies around where i live. Stuff looked quite good...The one with me was really adorable and the gal with Joe looked like she was really going for him. In actual fact, she was sending ALL the tells of desire. All Joe had to do was make a move and she would be his!
So what happened? Well, after taking about a half hour on the beach alone, Joe returns with this lady who quickly tells her good friend "We have to head out!" Of course, this entirely *disrupted* my evening! After the gals left, I asked Joe what happened. So here's a practically exact description of what he said: "Man, we were strolling hand-in-hand on the beach. I wanted to be sure she was attracted to me, so I got out my mobile and showed pics of my kitten back home. Then I started talking about how much I'm a sucker for animals..."
I was really Speechless! Here he was holding hands with a gorgeous girl By themselves on a beach and he starts babbling about freakin' kittens!!! This hottie was virtually offering him the "Kiss Me" alert and Joe decides that he has to still work on building attraction. Furthermore, rather than doing something that could build up the sexual chemistry, he pulls out the "nice guy" ritual and even gets into "creepy guy" territory. Now you might be wondering: "What does this have to do with me?" Well this story about my friend Joe left me thinking about all the small things that guys do which hurt their results with ladies. And as I examine on my website, you NEVER fail because of your appearance, or finances or age.
It all boils down to your mindset whenever you're around a girl. In truth, Joe screwed up because he reckoned that the babe wanted a nice man, although she was already excited about the fun, awesome guy that he usually is. In essence, she wanted the fun, flirty guy that's easily attractive to women. Joe failed given that he second guessed his skills and tried some pointless gimmick. When you're with ladies, you don't have to do some elaborate trick just to impress her. In fact, all you should do is know how to make the RIGHT sort of talk.
I've observed that a naturally attractive guy figures out how to flirt. His conversation abilities have that perfect balance of fun versus seriousness. On top of that this man should be focused on a girl but not TOO serious. To give you an example, here are some traits of the attitudes that gals WANT from a man: 1)He doesn't sound way too interested 2)He isn't hesitant to tease and be a little irreverent 3)He behaves like a gentleman, but is not a 4)He lives his life on his own terms 5)He takes bold actions -- These are a few traits of an attractive man. The point I'm trying to get is you might be failing with girls simply because you don't give girls what they want in the men they go out with.
To truly succeed with women, you have to adopt all the qualities of a high value man. Plus, you need to learn how to talk to women. Which means flirting and getting that sexual chemistry that's vital for producing attraction. So don't be like my friend Joe. When you're speaking with an attractive girl, pay attention to establishing that fun, flirty ambience that can quickly draw her interest.
