subject: Internet Dating - The Double Edged Sword [print this page] Meeting people you have something that is similar to in a world so big and busy can be like looking to find a needle in a haystack. The internet is like a magnifying glass, letting you see clearer and find the prize.
I am not saying you're not still going to see some dirt occasionally!
The Cyb-er world has created a method to reach beyond normal boundaries.
Internet dating sites have created a way for the lonely to find companionship,
The bored with excitement.
The curious with answers
The hopeless with hope
The broken hear ted with love.
Creating an online business as a tool can make all these things possible. The field of internet dating has allowed for the individual to expand normal boundaries and meet people that you might never have met otherwise.
The internet has made it easier and possible to connect with more people and even find love.
Unfortunately with this advancement just like any, there are always those looking to exploit it to their own personal benefit. They manipulate the system and the person for their own selfish desires. Whether it's for sexual reasons or financial, many lie about who they really are with words and false pictures or no pictures. Without personally interaction you are forced to believe what they write. Deception has become much easier in case you wish to manipulate. They can cheat on their spouses in a bit more discrete fashion, they mislead you as to who they are really, and then there are those who lie and manipulate for financial gain.
Without in person contact, it is easier for the deceptive use the naive and unsuspecting. They cannot see the pain or confusion in a person's eye, and you will not rely on eye contact and body language to read a person. You don't have to respect or have compassion as often they never need to be accountable for their actions, or witness the devastation left in their wake. It enables them to continue with a lack conscience and empathy. Often when taken to another location step and you do meet, it is too late because you have been completely blinded by words and given false hope. Often judgment and reality are distorted at this time.
And it's also a great place for the psychopath to thrive and the trusting to be victimized!
