subject: Another Chance For Your After Her Cheating [print this page] The idea of second chances after cheating seems to be an issue especially to most men. No victim finds pleasure to this idea for its effect is very traumatic and possibly a recurring issue in the future.
Believe it or not, there are some men who are afraid to commit. We just don't know why they think this way but to site one common error is cheating. They tend to play around instead of sticking to a long-term relationship. The question is that: Is it going to last? There are only a few who still live up with their hopes of a happy ending.
Is there one good reason you should try again after your wife cheated? How about three?
1)You love your wife and you believe in the marriage you made. Most men don't decide to marry on a whim. It's something you thought long and hard about before you took the plunge. The fact that your wife cheated didn't cut off the love you feel for her. It may have hidden it beneath a big layer of hurt, anger, and confusion but it didn't just end it. It's still there or you wouldn't be hurting nearly as much as you are right now.
2)How would you expect your wife's reaction if she's on your shoes? Of course, you are expecting your wife would also behave the same way you did. Consider as well her reaction if she knew you'd been smitten by this temptation - just one bite.She might do as well what you did if the feeling you had is mutual. And if you were in her shoes, how would you deal with it? You might even think of doing the same thing.
3)You feel guilty that she cheated. This happens more often that people who have never been in this situation realize. You know your wife is a good person. You wouldn't have married her if you didn't know that. The fact that she cheated doesn't mean she went through some major life transformation. In your mind that leaves one thing: you. You feel that it is somehow your fault your wife cheated. For that reason alone it is worth giving your marriage a second chance so you can both work out the why and the what now questions that are lingering in both your minds.
