subject: Approaching Women Without Fear - 3 Keys To Confidently Walking Up To A Woman [print this page] I have to say, the more and more I hear about what it is specifically that guys are having a hard time with, is approaching a woman without any fears at all. Now, most guys are immediately going to dismiss the idea that they have a fear about approaching women. After all, the male ego does not exactly want to give in and admit something like this. However, if you have that moment where you think twice about approaching a woman that you are physically attracted to... then you DO have at least some fear in there.
It's okay. Some of the best pick up artists in the world have started out with a healthy fear of approaching women. More often than not, some of this is basically just the unknown, because most guys just don't have that much experience approaching really good looking women.
I was out in Los Angeles a while back, and out there, some really good looking girls will end up passing by. And I was with a friend of mine that I had grown up with who moved out there a few years ago. I nudged him on the arm when this group of three amazing looking women passed by, a signal to approach them. So, I started to move forward and much to my surprise, my friend stayed in the background.
That's when I realized that most guys, even when they live in an area where there is an abundance of attractive women around, still never get quite past that reservation to make the approach.
Here are 3 tips that will have you approaching women with confidence in no time at all:
1. Practice makes perfect.
I know you have heard this line before, but you know what? It's true. When I first started out getting this area of my life handled, I sucked at approaching women. I never knew what the "right" thing to say was, I always thought about it a little too much, and sometimes, I would back down at the last second. But, I kept chugging along, and within a short time, it started to become easy to approach a woman, and it did not matter how attractive she was. I could walk up to her as calm as the breeze and start a flirty conversation.
2. Whatever you can use to open a conversation, use it.
If you do not have a lot of experience in approaching women, then you need to get some right? Well, one of the things that will hold you back is feeling like you don't know how to start things off. This is really just a small thing, because the whole point of walking over to a woman is so that you can get a conversation started. So, that's all you need to do. At first, you might only have a little come on that you use, but over time, you will be able to launch into a full conversation that hooks her attention.
3. Women do NOT bite.
I saw this on a female friend of mine's MySpace page one time. It said, "If you want to ask me something, just ask. I don't bite!" Now, that might seem a littler funny, and it is, but that's the truth right there. Women are not going to bite your head off, slap you in the face or do anything else just because you came up to start a conversation with her.
