subject: He stares at other women when we are out together! [print this page] You took 2 hours to get ready for your night out with your sweetie. You have not a single hair out of place, your outfit fits like a glove and it compliments all of your best features. You are looking gorgeous; and your man agrees. Then just like that, you are at a restaurant or the local hot spot which seems to be wall- to- wall packed with beautiful women and you feel like all your primping and prepping has gone to waste. At least according to your man's wandering eye. The human-natured fact is that men and women alike have eyes and guess what? They use them to look!
It is completely healthy and natural for your man to notice beauty. After all, that is a large part of why he is with you; he noticed your beauty. There is nothing taboo or "wrong" with a man who looks and notices.
Every woman wants a man who makes her feel like she is the only girl in the room. It is when he makes her feel like she isn't in the room at all that causes concern. Does he glance as a hot waitress walks by? Or does he ogle every girl that walks past your table often forgetting what you two were talking about before she came into sight? There is a not- so- fine line between the aforementioned noticing and outright staring and drooling. Here are some questions to ask yourself: Does he maintain eye contact with me during a conversation when a beautiful woman walks by? Does he look at me more than the women in our background? Does he seem engaged in what's going on between us? Or Does he look like a single man with open options when we are out? Does he break his neck to watch the girl in the super short skirt walk by, nearly falling out of his chair to do so? Does he ever try to talk to any of the women he is noticing? It really comes down to this- does he pay more attention to you than other women? If the answer is yes, then he is just your average run- of the- mill man; he looks but knows where his heart is. If the answer is no, then you may have a dog on your hands and it might be the perfect time to get outta dodge. Can you honestly say you wouldn't notice a gorgeous man who walked past your table?
It is perfectly fine to look but once it transitions from innocent looking into the territory of making you feel like you are anything other than everything to him, then its time to cut your losses and move on to someone who gives you that butterflies- in- the- stomach feeling of being the only woman in the room.
He stares at other women when we are out together!
