subject: Beware Of Gossip To A New Job Will Be Pathogenic [print this page] Anding Hospital, Capital Medical University and Institute of Mental Health, Peking University in Beijing jointly conducted epidemiological surveys depression alarming conclusion: in Beijing 15 years and over population, the prevalence of depressive disorders was 3.31% , 6.87% lifetime prevalence. In layman's terms, there are 600,000 Beijingers have been or are suffering from depression, there are 300,000 Beijingers are experiencing trouble with depression. The depression is expected in China up to 2600 people. Depression has become an important public issue. According to surveys, women patients with depression twice as much as men. Depression in female patients, the prevalence of urban white-collar women than other women. Because white-collar women at work than the average pressure on females.
3 woman a drama, it seems natural woman with the special "glib", gossip, Wang Li short, those filled with "how the boss man, how so and so make-up, so and so deliberately to work overtime every day performance, his She just will not work with dress, "the boring conversation and jokes, always has openly surreptitiously filling every corner of the office gossip. Just to work for the new workplace is, how to deal with this not very healthy office environment, especially when their upper body too nosy, we are not able to make some "small of children," a row with others to prove his justice and innocence do? Armed Police General Hospital, Director of Institute of Psychology Xu Jianyang prompted the majority of women friends, office gossip has its own particular environment and shaping of the psychological factors in young professionals need not mind, rumors naturally go faster on something else, too much concern about the The interference makes his gaffe did not say that once physical and psychological harm, hinder their future career development is not worth it.
Gossip encountered a few new problems, control their own listening to expert analysis, suddenly feeling happy and elegant career to do a new women.
Response to rumors Generous heart is key Case 1: Mary to work for long, the work is very modest, failing to always first consult senior colleagues, but there are several older female colleagues had deliberately targeted her, not only the attitude of cold also from time to time on Mary's dress made fun. Once Mary report to the manager came out, just to hear them again in gossip, said manager Mary with cotton up to intentionally close to the leadership is not out of trouble. Mary is very sad, very respected on their own, may they always embarrassing myself from this depression into the disease, Xiaoli could not eat or sleep, do not even want to go to work.
Experts: Mary thought of this long-term depression can easily lead to depression. In fact, the same work in a unit, sitting in the same office, this is quite common. Community, who is a collection of contradictions, living in the same space, one must ensure that there is a certain contradiction between their own space in order to maintain a common language with others from morning till evening. In fact Mary's role is to act as a victim within a specified time, you are new to to all of us is a new thing it is easy to let other people other up, being nosy upper body, this is only temporarily resolve conflicts between old comrades in a way? ? distraction. At this point you can not be honest if sincere, honest and aboveboard, then from this you can not in the new environment are over. Learn to expand their minds and tolerance, not to these issues in mind and continue to take the initiative to go and greet old comrades to ask questions, even if subject to misunderstanding and resentment, I believe over time there will be a fair judge. Lei-known translator told us: "As long as good faith, the total can play moving."
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Case II: snow just able to work with colleagues when the surprisingly friendly, and every piece of work to go to work, went to the cafeteria to eat at noon, night clubbing together, playing bowling, jump to. Snow feel, since it is an absolutely loyal friend would, so when my colleagues complain with "abnormal boss, eccentric manager of his ass, her ignorance," when the snow though never involved, but also ensure that their will not to tell people these words. But not long, snow found in the attitude of everyone she seemed to have significant changes, some of the glaring light snow, some secretly leading the front to her classmates, sometimes just a tooth for a tooth face on the chatter snow. Snow surprise, anger, what is wrong in its own right, why does the world changed overnight?
