subject: Suffering From Premature Ejaculation? This is What Your Woman Thinks of You (You'll Be Surprised) [print this page] Have you ever wondered what your woman is thinking of when you climax too soon during sex? For guys suffering from premature ejaculation, they often think about the guilt, frustration and embarrassment that accompany their regular bouts of early orgasms. But what exactly goes on in the mind of your woman when that happens? I bet you would be keen to find out, don't you? The answer is going to surprise you...
What Women Think About Premature Ejaculation...
There is no doubt that suffering from PE can be one of the most painful and frustrating things that could happen to any man. Most men wouldn't want to talk about it, at least not openly. Men who suffer from PE may try anything from desensitizing creams to pills and condoms in an attempt to dull his sensation during sex. In other words, he is looking for a physical solution to his problem.
Yet the average woman will worry about how her partner is feeling. What's worse, she may even think that her man is hurrying through sex because he does not enjoy her company and want to "get it over and done with" as quickly as possible! Unlike men, women view premature ejaculation as an emotional problem.
See the difference?
This difference in gender perceptions is what is causing many relationships to hit the rocks. The guy sees something physically wrong with himself while his partner thought he's no longer interested in her!
So What Should You Do?
Talking about it openly with each other is a good start. And a necessary one. And this is where men should tread very carefully. It is easy for a guy to get angry or become defensive about his lack of staying power. But if you are committed to overcoming your lack of sexual stamina, then you will certainly want to work things out and openly discuss this with her, without feeling guilty or embarrassed.
This Is Going To Change Your Mindset...
Tell her you get turned on so easily because you find her so hot and attractive. She will feel flattered. This will allay her possible fears that you are no longer interested in her and thus hurry through sex. Once you cleared this up, make it a commitment to work on your early ejaculation TOGETHER. Experiment with positions and angles. Find out what combinations keep your arousal and ejaculation under control, and those that drive her completely wild.
Above all, focus on making an emotional connection with her during sex. For example, go SLOW during intercourse, and spend MORE time holding her, caressing her, and making her feel special. Revel in the present moment and not dwell on the fact that you will blow early. This is the important first step to fixing premature ejaculation for good!
Suffering From Premature Ejaculation? This is What Your Woman Thinks of You (You'll Be Surprised)
