subject: HOW TO DEAL WITH A WOMAN HAVING LACK OF SEX DESIRE [print this page] Many experts strongly believe that something needs to be done when person has a very low desire of sex. It is rare that two people have exactly the same level of desire for sex, so couples have to compromise somewhat.
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The cure for such a lack of desire depends on the cause
Depression:
If a woman suffers from depression, then she is not going to want to have sex. If she gets help for her depression first, then her libido will probably go up by itself. A woman may suffer also depression after a hysterectomy, equating the loss of her uterus with the loss of youth, femininity, and beauty. If her ovaries are also removed, the woman is thrown into "early menopause", which brings its own set of problems. If you are feeling low and recently had a total hysterectomy, speak with your doctor and consider consultation.
Child birth:A new mom sometimes gets so emotionally tied up with her baby, not to mention so tired from lack of sleep, that she loses interest in sex. The dad, who may have stopped having sex with her during the last month or two of pregnancy, & gave her the time to recover from the effects of giving birth. Although the new mother may have some very good excuses, it is often a mistake to use them. You may have to make conscious effort to put the spark back into your sex life, and you should do it. Get a grandparent to baby sit or hire a baby sitter & go out with your husband in a romantic evening.3 Menopause:The production of woman's sex hormones declines during menopause, causing certain side effects that can affect a woman's sex life.
HOW TO DEAL WITH A WOMAN HAVING LACK OF SEX DESIRE
