subject: How To Get Him To Come Back To You! Expert Tips That Work [print this page] You want to know how to get him to come back to you. It makes perfect sense. Since the break up youve come to the realization that life without your ex isnt nearly as fulfilling. You miss him and that longing is just getting to be more intense with each passing day. The problem is that you have no idea how to get him back. Sure, your friends in all their infinite wisdom have been telling you to do things like send him a gift or write him a long letter. Maybe youve even tried these things but obviously theyre not giving you the results you want. You two are still broken up and youre no closer to winning him back than you were the day you two ended the relationship.
Understanding how to get him to come back to you is all about learning which psychological triggers within him you have to press. Unlike women, men arent swayed by the thought of a romantic apology or gesture in an attempt to win them back. They generally wont react to something like this at all. Instead, you have to push him in such a way that he has no choice but to crave to be back with you again. It all sounds a bit mythical and magical, but its actually much easier to do this than you realize.
Since the break up youve likely been the one reaching out to him. Maybe you call him to tell him you miss him or perhaps youre more calculated than that and you text him telling him youre very sick and wish you could see him just one more time. Anything like this is not going to get the reaction in him that youre looking for. Hell see you as more of a bother than anything else and hell pull back so dramatically that youll lose all contact with him.
The one way to get a man to stand up and take notice of you again is to ignore him. Men hate being ignored by anyone. You may have noticed this in the past if you two were at a restaurant and your boyfriend couldnt get the servers attention. There are many examples like this in life but the end result is always the same. Anytime a man feels hes ignored he equates that to not being important. If you can make him feel that way, hell set out to prove you wrong.
Its a very easy approach to take. All that is required of you is to stop talking to him for a few weeks. Delete his phone number from your cell, pack away any small mementos you have around that reminds you of him, and focus more on other aspects of your life.
Its not going to take your ex more than a day or two to notice that youve vanished into thin air. Hell play it cool at first but when a week or two passes without word from you, hell start to wonder whats up and thats when you can expect a call or text message from him. If you play it cool and dont jump the first time he contacts you, youll be setting the stage for the two of you to get back together again.
