subject: 4 Wrong Steps To Avoid After Cheating On Your Wife [print this page] After your wife has caught you cheating on her, and your marriage is on rocks, there are a lot of things that you need to be careful of doing. There is no perfect solution in saving your marriage but there are things that you can do to avoid seeing your marriage turn into ashes. Here are the few things that you need to in order for you to save your marriage and have your wife back.
1.The other woman. You need to stop seeing the other woman, completely. This is the first thing that you must do, to stop seeing her. There is no reason at all to see, other than to tell her that this has to stop. Unless you can't avoid seeing her like she is your boss or she is the next door neighbor. This is the moment where you need to change your habits so that you won't accidentally bump into the company of the other woman if you want to save your precious marriage. You don't want your wife to think that you are finding ways to rub shoulders with your other woman again.
2)Failing to make more opportunities to spend time with your wife. This is a time when your wife is feeling particularly vulnerable. Take every opportunity you get to reassure her of your love for her and let her know that she is the only woman for you. Avoid working late for a while if at all possible. Make her a priority in your life and your marriage will flourish like it never has before. Drop your weekly poker night for a while and vow to spend more time with your wife.
3.Avoid spending time alone with your work or hobby. If you are serious in working to save your marriage, now is the time to show it and participate in your marriage. Let her know that you are there, physically and emotionally and not just share the same house number. Be visible to her, where she can reach you out for you. Talk to her and build a better relationship with her. If you need to court her again, do it.
4.Bring back romance. Most men believe that romance will get the woman of their dreams and once he has her, it's done. This is not the case. Your wife needs romance. Be her knight in shining armor in the true sense of the word and not just a knight you will not fight unless covered with armor. Your effort will be rewarded accordingly and you might like it.
