subject: Pheromones and Law of Attraction [print this page] Believe it or not, there is actually a science behind how human pheromones work. How it is produced, transmitted and received including what effects it has on the opposite sex. However, how human pheromones work through biology or human physiology is not what I'm going to talk about. There are already a million articles explaining how human pheromones work by using biology. What I'm going to talk about is how it works using psychology and sociology through my own experiences.
There were many blindfold studies were a hot female gets to smell a couple of ugly looking males and she gets to pick which one she is most attracted to using only her nose. In these studies, males sprayed with pheromones never win. Allow me to explain why this happens and why pheromone users will never or hardly ever win.
When a person walks into a room full of people, that person is emitting an aura. It can be any type of aura, from friendliness, anger, rage, panic, fear, etc. When a person smiles, that person is emitting an aura of friendliness which makes this person easier to talk to and converse with. The same thing could be said to someone that frowns a lot. This person looks closed in and anti social so this person will hardly get approached at all by other people inside the room. So our body language plays a big role in our society and what type of aura we are emitting. It is the same thing with pheromones.
A lot of human pheromones and pheromone products claim that they are going to make you attractive which are true if the product really does have pheromones inside it. However, pheromones are not miracle cures that can make a toad into a prince. They can only amplify what you have. If a girl doesn't like you cause you don't have a job, she will never like you even if you wear pheromones because she already has a mindset of who you are and all of your bad qualities. You cannot be the Alpha Male or the prince charming that will sweep her off her feet because she already knows that her prince charming has a job.
A lot of the pheromone products claim that they can make you look like the "Alpha Male". If a person walks in to a room and he looks timid plus weak, human pheromones are not going to help him. However if a guy walks into a room with confidence, good posture, and a big smile, pheromones are going to amplify those attributes and he is going to stand out which will make him the "Alpha Male". This is what pheromones do. They make you stand out from the rest and make you look good. Think of pheromones as aura amplifier. Whatever aura you are emitting, pheromones will help emit those auras also plus give a hint of sexuality.
A lot of strippers use pheromones to get more tips and a lot of pick up artists in clubs use human pheromones also. These were featured in CNN and in the news in the television. So pheromones do work, unfortunately, the wearer needs to have inner confidence and style in order for it to work. The person needs to have his inner game working. I've never seen a pathetic, bum looking, no-bath, type of guy use pheromones and actually work for them. Average guys with good fashion sense and good communication skills benefit a lot from human pheromones.
So if there is a person that you like but this person thinks really bad of you and can only see your bad qualities, it is highly doubtful that pheromones will work. You need to fix those bad qualities first and then use pheromones. Bad qualities will sink into your mind and ego. They will resurface through your thoughts, actions, body language and verbal messages. No amount of pheromones will work for you. Pheromone products rely heavily on sociology and psychology. In other words, it relies heavily on how you present yourself to other people and what type of aura you are giving off. Pheromones are not, "oh look she smelled me and now she is horny". It is true, pheromones could make her horny but it won't be directed at you if you don't have any good points going on.
