subject: How to Get Your Husband Back From the Other Woman [print this page] So you want to get your husband back from the other woman? Tips and advice on how to get your ex husband back are all over the place these days but how do you know what works and what will send your ex running even further away?
First trust your own instincts. You and you alone know both yourself and your ex husband. Why did you break up? Was it just a stupid disagreement or are you really unable to get along on some level. Arguments about stupid things are often a sign of a more deep rooted problem so don't just ignore it. If you were continually fighting about the same little things, chances are there are some other issues that affected your relationship. You need to deal with this problem as ignoring it will not make it go away.
Try asking your family and friends for their view on what made you two a great couple initially. Also ask them for their insight into why you may have broken up - you may find out something new.
Try talking to your ex husband. Arrange to meet up on neutral ground, preferably in a park or restaurant where there will be other people close by. Why? So that you both have to remain calm and not let your meeting turn into yet another quarrel.
Do not let your meeting descend into a trading insults session. Sure you may have to listen to some truths, which hit home, but do so with poise. Your ex is probably only letting off steam. Tell your ex that you still love him and want to give your relationship another go. Ask them if they would be interested in trying again? Perhaps you could go to couple's therapy together.
Express regret for your past behaviour and explain why you want them back in your life. You may have to work hard to persuade them, particularly, if hurting them is something you do; on a regular basis. If this is the case, you need to ask yourself if you are sure that your ex husband is the right person for you. We don't usually upset the people we love, at least not on a regular basis. It is difficult enough to keep romance alive in any relationship but if you are always hurting your partner, love dies very rapidly.
When you meet your ex husband, remind them of all the great times you had together as a couple. Tell them that this time away from each other has given you plenty of time to decide what you want and it is unquestionably them. You are 100% sure that getting back together is the only outcome you are interested in. Caress their ego. Let them know how gorgeous you find them and how much you want them but don't go overboard. You do not want to alarm them or appear desperate, even though that might be the case.
Be prepared for it to take some time to get your husband back from the other woman. Tips and advice on how to get your husband back from the other woman are all good and fine. However you are dealing with a human being, who may need time to see that getting back together; is a good plan. Don't forget you probably know your husband better than he does and this is your best weapon. With the right strategy you can do this!
