subject: How To Help Children Have A Happy Character [print this page] After many years research, the United States child psychologist have found that focus on training children to have a happy personality is helpful for children' healthy growth. Then, how to cultivate children' happy character? The following aspects can give you some references.
First, keep close with your children. Friendship play an important role in the process of cultivating children' happy character. Therefore, as parents, you should deem children as friend. When you have free time, play with them and try to understand them, besides, parents should encourage children to play with other children. Playing with other buddy can teach them how to get well with other people.
Second, give your children rights and opportunity to make decision by their own wills. The cultivation of a jolly character has a close relationship with parents' guidance and controlling of children' behavior. Parents should manage to provide the opportunity that children can make their own choice, and make kids know how to make use of their rights to make their own decisions.
Third, teach kids to adjust their mind-set. Parents should let children know that some people will be happy all their lives, because they have strong psychological inner quality. This quality can make them quickly cheer up from the depression. When the children confronted with some setbacks, you should let them know the future is always bright, and teach them to adjust their mental state, so that they can restore the feeling of joy.
Fourth, limit children's material possessiveness. Because giving kids so many things can make a false vision, they would think acquisition is the source of happiness. Therefore, parents should let them know the happiness of life is not equal to the material wealth.
Six, help children have an extensive interest. Parents should pay attention to children's hobbies, provide them with a variety of options and give the necessary guidance. Naturally, children have a wide hobbies can form a happy personality.
Last, maintain a harmonious family life. Family has play the main role in cultivating children' personality. Date has shown that children who grow up in a happy family will lead a happy life when they become adults. This number is more those children who grow up in an unhappy family.
