subject: 2 Great Conversation Starters for Meeting Women [print this page] One of the biggest complaints men have is knowing what to say once they approach a woman. Most guys have trouble either starting a conversation or keeping it going. Communication is an area that a lot of men need help with. So here are 2 great conversation starters for meeting women.
1. If you approach them in a Grocery Store:
So let's say you are in the grocery store shopping and you see a very attractive women. A great conversation starter would be to approach her and say something like, "do you mind if I ask you a question? I'm making dinner tonight for some lady friends and I would really appreciate your opinion. I was thinking of going with pasta or fish. Which dish do you think women prefer?" It doesn't matter what her answer is but let's say she said fish. You can then lead into with, "that really sounds great, now all I need is a cook. What time are you free?" Trust me, the majority will get a good chuckle out of that and you will find that the answer to a lot of them is that they can't cook. If that's the case you can say something like, "really, my mother warned me about women who can't cook so I probably shouldn't even be talking to you." She'll want to know the answer to that and the conversation will continue.
2. If you approach them in a Coffee Shop:
Let's say you are standing in line next to a beautiful woman. A great conversation starter would be to ask her, "which coffee is better, a cappuccino or a latte?" If she says latte then you can say, "great, then I'll go with a cappuccino." Of course she will be surprised and kind of laugh that one off. You can then say, "well you know what they say about women who drink latte's, don't you?" It's a safe bet she will say no. You can then say that you will tell her later.
So there are just 2 great conversation starters for meeting women so you can use those as examples for other situations. Some of you may be saying okay, that's great for starters but how do I continue the conversation? There are actually several different strategies you can use.
You can start by introducing yourself, perhaps ask her what's she doing at the moment and if she's free, perhaps join her in a conversation or perhaps take a walk in the park.
Another way of following up is to continue the conversation with an opinion. You can say something like, "I really need your opinion. Tell me, who lies better, men or women?" Or just relax and let the conversation flow. You know, whatever pops into your head. I don't know why but when you really relax, the words will come. For some reason, the more relaxed you are the more active your brain becomes and it just gets easier to talk to women.
My suggestion is to start with these simple conversation starters and remember to relax. The more relaxed you are, the more the words will come. I hope these 2 great conversation starters for meeting women has been helpful.
