subject: Dating Tips For Guys - 3 Major Points Solved, Part 1 [print this page] What excuses do you have for not having a wildly successful dating life and meeting all sorts of wonderful women? Are you prepared to cast aside some of those excuses? I understand that this question may sound somewhat glib but I talk to men every single day who just seem much more comfortable hanging on to the same old excuses than really having success with women. Hard to believe but it's the truth.
Luckily for you, since you are reading this article, I would hope this means that you are ready to finally put all that doubt aside and learn what it takes to really get in good with women. You know, as opposed to just talking about it! So are you ready?
Below you will find three major points that the majority of us face as well as a quick solution.
1) Not Handsome Enough
How many times have you heard that "looks don't matter" to women? Enough times I'm sure so why haven't you gotten the message by now?
It's a known fact that men and women "do not" think alike. But men tend to compare themselves to women when this type of thinking is involved. We constantly say that "women are impossible to understand" when the reality of it is that you need to listen more to what they say. Because guys tend to pre-assess women based on their physical appearance, we in turn assume that women do the exact same thing.
Luckily for us, women do view the world differently. How many times have you seen an unattractive guy with a beautiful woman on his arm? It's also obvious that she absolutely adores him. Ever wonder why?
The majority of women don't care if you are overweight, short or even bald as long as you have the four qualities they are searching for. Those qualities consist of confidence, character, masculinity and the ability to inspire her confidence.
2) Not Rich Enough
Here is another saying that you've probably heard numerous times, "only rich guys get the hot girls". Here is a cold hard fact for you. If you having money is the only reason you are able to get the girl, you are in for one heck of a ride.
How many guys have you run into who don't have much money at all yet they have a great woman on their arm? It really isn't about the money. What it's about is the security or even the potential of security you can provide.
When you make a woman feel safe that comes from your confidence and character and not from your wallet. Women want you to hold them and tell them that everything is going to be fine. If she believes you when you tell her this, it never was about the money.
3) The Right Personality
We are all unique individuals with our own personalities. That goes for the women as well. So if women are only searching for guys that are the "life of the party", then why are so many guys who are the exact opposite happy in a relationship?
You will attract the right women whose personality will compliment your own. Stop worrying about what women want and just be yourself. That one special woman will connect with you much better when you are not trying to be something that you aren't.
I hope these dating tips for guys, 3 major points solved has helped. I have three more to share with you so be sure to look for part 2.
Dating Tips For Guys - 3 Major Points Solved, Part 1
