subject: Emotional Affair at Work - Normal but an Ethical [print this page] Your job is very important but this is where emotional affair at work starts. People come to work five days a week. In fact, some go every day. It seems that it is a requirement in order to provide provisions for the family and his essential needs. However, it is very obvious that when at work, you are exposed to many people, and you get closer to your office mates. Sometimes, this is where an intrigue starts. That is normal for the bachelors or single ladies. It is a far distinct story when you are engaged or even married. We call that cheating.
It is exceedingly evident when your partner is having an emotional affair at work. It's either he is attached with their office mates more than to you or would go out with his client beyond business hours. You can also observe that when you give a surprise visit in the office. The environment seems different when you are around and there are people, either office mate or client, that keeps coming near your partner. Sometimes they stare. Normally, for some, they go through outrage attacking your partner or the third party. I is strongly advised not to go beyond that. We still need to impose civility.
There are ways to resolve these issues calmly. The very basic is asking your partner if he is having an emotional affair at work. To ease out anger in you, partners who would confess what they are going through. For your part, there should be acceptance. You could never say that your relationship is perfect. There must be something happening in your relationship that your partner is not satisfied. On the other hand, if he will not admit it, then the next choice you have is to seek for counseling. This is the next step also, even if he confesses.
An emotional affair at work is happening to many couples. This is an increasing problem due to some factors. At first hand, the people whom your partner can talk to are office mates. For the case of employee-client relationship is a similar yet fewer probable cases. When an emotional affair is being practiced by your partner, never think that you should as well get in to the same spotlight. It will make the problem worst. What you can do is seek for assistance from experts in marriage counseling. There they will give you advices on how to resolve your issue and how to save your marriage. If you think you are giving up, they will also give you good reasons why you should end up legally separated.
