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How to get your ex to return your phone calls races through your mind. Your phone call just got rejected again, and you have lost count of how many calls you have made.
If you are one of the lucky people who have found their partner for life, and have a wonderful loving long term relationship, then you are blessed.
But for many of us, despite our desire and attempt to stay with the one we love, something comes along that tears away at the relationship, ending in a breakup or separation. You want to make up and save your relationship or save your marriage, but your ex won't accept your phone calls. This is one of the biggest questions from people who are trying to put their relationship back together. How do I get my ex to return my phone call or respond to my message?
I am going to give you the answer, but please understand this caution. You must have a strategy, a bigger plan to get your ex back. The Magic of Making Up provides this strategy. If you use only the technique I am about to give you, and don't have a bigger plan, then you could make your relationship worse.
Let's think about what won't work. Resist the temptation to plead as this may cast a negative image onto you. And resist the emergency call. You know, creating some minor emergency so your ex just has to call. If it isn't a real emergency, it will just hurt your position.
Let's turn the tables and use methods to your advantage. Most everyone is interested in things that are self serving or meet their own self interests. And curiosity is a powerful force.
If you can combine both curiosity and self interest then you have found the answer. Here's an example. In a pleasant tone, leave a message such as " Hi John. I am calling to tell you that I really appreciate what you did for me. I would like to thank you in person."
Can you see how this would get your ex wondering "what did I do, why am I being thanked?" And they would feel good about the message because it is a positive and a powerful message. That should get a return call.
Before you leave that message, make sure you have figured out what they did that you appreciate. It should be something real and plausible.
Ensure you have that strategy so you know what you are going to do before, during, and after you get your ex to return your phone call.
Most importantly, you must have the big plan, the overall strategy to win your ex back.
Win Your Ex Back - How To Make Your Ex Return Your Call
