subject: How To Make Conversation With A Guy? Here Are The Tools You Need To Start A High Energy Chat [print this page] Are you the type of woman who is painfully shy and clams up the moment she sees the guy of her dreams across the floor? Do you want to know how to muster up enough courage to go up to him and make interesting conversation? Well you are in luck! These tips will help you to get friendly with him in no time at all.
Look friendly and approachable
The trick is to look friendly. No guy will respond to a woman who looks and behaves like an iceberg! Make sure that you dress in a manner that will grab his attention. Once you are confident about your looks, smile at him and look approachable. This will make him happy to see you giving him the look. It will be easy to talk to him.
Don't be self conscious
If you are shy and self conscious, it will definitely show in your manner and dress. Love yourself and love the way you look. Flaunt your assets boldly and be confident in your appealing personality. This type of attitude will help you to go up to him and talk to him without feeling insecure and afraid of rejection.
Find out facts before you take the plunge
If it is possible to find out details and facts about the guy, it would help you no end. For example knowing that he is single and eligible makes it easier to approach him without fear of a wife or girlfriend popping up at his side. Once you know more about him it is always easier to start a conversation that revolves around his pet topic.
Look interested and eager
Guys like it when women chase them. They love it even more if she makes it pretty clear that she finds him hot! Don't give him too much of the cold shoulder. Let him see how much he interests you. This will be good for his ego and he will welcome any move you make!
Find common ground
This again means that you have to dig around and find out what interests him. If you find that he loves bowling - hang around his favorite bowling alley! It is easier to make conversation with him there than anywhere else. Not only will he love to discuss bowling but it gives him a chance to see that you share his interests.
Make him feel honored by your interest
Pump up his ego and make him feel good about himself. If you come across as an interesting, glamorous and sexy woman who is attracted to him - he will love to bask in your admiration. Once you have his attention, it will be very easy to sidle up to him and say "hello".
Don't embarrass him
Don't make the mistake of catching him unawares or on the wrong foot. If you have made up your mind to talk to him then choose the place and get the timing right! You don't want to embarrass him by looking like a moonstruck fan. Bide your time and strike when the timing is perfect.
