subject: 4 Important Tips To Help Get Your Ex Back [print this page] How to get and ex boyfriend or girlfriend back is something a lot of men and women think about. You have been single a short time and after leaving your ex, you realize what a good thing you had being with them. Now you are at the point that you want them back in your life.
If you were angry about something when you broke up with them, lets hope you did not do something vengeful to them. Your ex is going to remember this and may reject you or make it very difficult when you try to get them to come back to you. Remember, it may make you feel good to take revenge for something but it only lowers your status.
You also need to make sure you are certain that you want your ex back for the right reasons. If it is because you are lonely and you think it is easier to get your ex back than to find a new partner, then maybe you should reconsider this plan. You most likely will break up again under these circumstances. Below are some tips you can follow when trying to get your ex back.
1. Don't look desperate when trying to get your ex to come back, you want to appear as though everything is good in your life. Do not call them over and over, it will drive them further away from you. Keep it low key.
2. If you find yourself sneaking around spying on your ex or even stalking them, you need to stop this behavior now. You may find yourself in trouble with the police which you do not want.
3. If you try to make your ex jealous by dating someone else, it may make you feel good but you are hurting someone else by taking advantage of them. This person you are cheating with may have feelings for you not knowing what you are scheming, then you let them down.
4. Why not just approach your ex and have a civilized talk with them about how you feel about them and what you propose. Give them some time to think over what you talked about. If they shoot you down nothing is hurt but your pride. Just move on with your life, there are plenty of other people you will meet.
