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Death is a natural part of life. Every living thing in the world dies at some point. However, for humans, it's something very painful. In fact, it's so depressing that there are still so many who consider it a taboo.
You may be going through some tough time right now. A relative or a friend may be suffering from a terminal illness, and any moment from now, he or she is going to die. As a loved one, you should prepare yourself for the inevitable.
Though there's no definite way to deal with the possible loss, there are some things you can do to soften the blow:
1. Don't treat them any different. A lot of people tend to change their ways around a dying individual. Perhaps it's because they want to show their great love and devotion. However, it's actually recommended that you don't treat the dying any differently, but that doesn't mean you should not make them feel as comfortable and as happy as possible. The one thing they are looking for in the last chapter of their lives is companionship and care, not really a lot of special attention and sacrifice at your end.
2. Give them time to be alone. Many of the dying patients want to give themselves time to be alone with their thoughts. Maybe they are also trying their best to come to terms with their own deaths. As much as you want to be with them all the time, it's only right that you respect their wishes. That's how you can make them very comfortable. Moreover, when you can see their fine with the idea of death, it becomes much easier for you to accept the impending process.
3. Be with someone. Usually, you want to act strong and firm when you're with the dying. That's actually good. The dying will certainly want to see that you can definitely cope with the possible loss. Nevertheless, never keep everything to yourself. If you feel like you're ready to burst, go run and talk to someone. It can be a friend or a family member. Pour your hearts out. By doing this, you begin the grieving process, and it will be a lot faster for you to accept the loss. Moreover, you can gain renewed strength from others.
4. Make use of affirmations. Affirmations or subliminal messages can be utilized to help deal with a lot of personal issues, including loss and grief. Subliminal messages, when used wisely, can help change certain perspectives, especially if they are negative ones. Every morning you may recite the following lines:
I accept the process of death.
I acknowledge my own grief.
I treasure the memories.
I value my life, and it compels me to move forward.
At first the words may sound hollow to you, but as they penetrate into your subconscious, slowly you will learn to accept them as truths. When you're depressed or lonely, you can tap on your subconscious and be reminded by these subliminal messages.
Subliminal Messages - Of Death and Dying - How to Prepare Yourself for the Moment
