subject: Sandra Bullock And Jesse James - Could This Marriage Have Been Saved? [print this page] As defined in most dictionaries, marriage is the state of being united to a person of the opposite sex as husband and wife in a consensual and contractual relationship recognized by law. It is an agreement that was bind by love and promises that even death can't break.
Some would say that marriages are so fragile. It needs to be packed and sealed for lifetime storms. Storms like doubts, misunderstandings, and jealousy that stained relationships until it will shatter and you'll see yourself speechless in the corner.
There are no perfect relationships. We are all human beings and we are susceptible for mistakes. Patience, understanding, and better communication are needed to save the marriage that may lead to divorce. Sometimes work can be the cause. If both or the other one is too busy with the work, time is the first thing to be affected.
Those others who don't made it, well; it simply shows that love is just their second priority. Although, it hurts a lot but they need to move on and recover to save the career. Recovering from a broken heart means that there are still strong feelings and attachments to the person you once loved and loved you back. It may also tend to imply that the breakup was not the outcome you desire, leaving you powerless. There are probably some underlying messages that somehow you have failed or you may not have been good enough is some ways.
Those who have faced an ending relationship with someone they love like their husbands/wives can certainly relate to an after match of sadness, grief, self-doubt, and often a temporary feeling of depression and desolation.
I guess if one good thing could be said to come out of this it is the fact that we are finally discovering the full scope of evidence that can be used in these cases. There are cell phones with GPS tracking, text message archives, call histories, video cameras everywhere, and countless other methods of getting caught in the act. You would think that would be a deterrent for men considering stepping out on the wives they claim to love.
Make it for each other and don't take one another for granted. No one knows what tomorrow may bring, so make the most of what you have today. Tell him/her what you felt coz tomorrow might not come. Remember, each day can be lived in utter misery or happily, the choice is yours. Let tomorrow take care of it and enjoy each other today while keeping the interest alive.
