subject: 8 Tips on How to Stay Positive in Life [print this page] In life, things don't always go the way they want them to. There will always be those times when you feel like giving up, and living is unreasonable at the moment. You feel so tired, stressed, and have no idea what to do. That's okay. It's normal. Everybody goes through that stage several times in their lives. It's natural to be sad for a while. Cry if you have to, but after that, get on with your life. Or better yet, know the secrets on how to stay positive in life. Here are some useful tips on how to stay positive when you feel like the whole world is against you.
1. Stop pitying yourself. Stop saying things like 'I'm the most unfortunate person in the world. My life is meaningless. I can't do anything right with my life'. You will get nowhere with this kind of attitude. You may be too busy feeling sorry for yourself, not knowing great opportunities may have already passed you by.
2. Bring your complaining to an end. When times get tough, the first thing we do is complain and whine. Why did I lose my job? Why didn't I earn the promotion that I've worked so hard for? Always remember that everything happens for a reason. Instead of wasting your time over complaining, why not concentrate yourself on finding the solution to the problem.
3. Get rid of your insecurities. People have the tendency to always look for what they don't have. We never seem to be contented. We feel envy over many things - wealth, job position, and even simple material things. This feeling leads to insecurities. We always look for something better. Instead of being insecure for the things that you don't have, it is better to be grateful of the things that you have.
4. Live for yourself, and not for anybody else. Cast yourself away from other people's shadow. Do what you're good at and concentrate on them. Never let other people live your life for you. Decide for yourself and make the choices that your heart desires.
5. Establish a strong connection with the people around you, especially your family and friends. They are the people whom you can always run into in case you need some guidance and support.
6. Reward yourself after a job well done. Take a break once in a while. Get yourself pampered. Go to the spa; or buy yourself some fancy outfit. Treating yourself once in a while will relieve your stress and make you feel invigorated to work again.
7. When you are feeling sad, think of happy moments. Relive them on your mind. Reminisce the last time that you enjoyed yourself. One good tip when you are feeling low, play with the kids. You'll be amazed how a child can lift your spirits up and bring back the child in you.
8. Read inspirational stories to motivate you. You can find a lot of them in bookstores, or even online. Reading at least one everyday will give you that motivation and courage you need to face the day ahead.
So there you have it. Now that you know how to stay positive, better apply these tips immediately.
