subject: Here's the fastest way to get your ex back [print this page] First you need to stop drunk dialing and texting your ex!
Many people experiencing a break up in a relationship experience this heartbreak. Most of the time you don't see it coming: your bf/gf decides for some reason that it's over between you. But you don't get it. You don't understand and you want him/her back! How can you quickly get your lover back?
Normally there really is no "fastest way to get your ex back!" You're reading this because things seem pretty desperate, and I understand that. It's tough. However, this is the best possible scenario:
You agree to the breakup, giving you both a break from the relationship.
Both people soon realize that the breakup was a mistake and both have the humility to admit their mistakes.
Because of your humility and because of the apparent lack of problems to separate you two, you get back together.
Probably not your case.
In your case, the problems likely run deeper. Your now former lover who broke up with you has real issues that
provoked the breakup. You will still want to accept the breakup, and allow for at least a break. You will have to take this step if you wish for reconciliation. So the fastest way will probably not seem that fast. But remember that good relationships take time to build, and a broken relationship will also take time to mend, if mending is possible.
You can give it a couple weeks, write a note, make a phone call. Make contact with your ex for a casual conversation and ask her to meet you for coffee sometime. This will be a get together where you try to have fun and try to look for signs of solving your problems. You don't want friction! If she tries to bring up issues, you can listen, but don't try to defend yourself and don't argue. Just make sure it is a casual time where you are both having fun. Look for positive signs from your ex. See if she compliments your appearance, if she makes reference to great old times and adventures. Take note of all the positive things that come from this meeting.
Take it slow, take it easy, get your ex back!
Hopefully, as explained above, you two are able to have a great little meeting! Give it another week and see if she calls you to get together again. If not, then call her and invite her out on an adventure! Go play mini golf, do some photography, Frisbee in the park, something exciting and different!
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