subject: Rebuild Trust After Cheating [print this page] You've cheated, and you're wrecked with guilt...and trying to salvage the broken pieces of your relationship. This article will help you learn how to build trust after infidelity (yes, it's possible), so both you and your partner can start getting over an affair and move forward together.
This is advice from a cheater (yes, me). My husband forgave me, and we've been happy together ever since.
Something in your relationship, or in your attitude about relationships, led to you cheating, You need to understand what, so you can get back on the path to repairing your relationship.
What was it about the person you cheated with that appealed to you? Did they seem exciting? Did they pay a lot of attention to you? Say things to you that you needed to hear? What drew you to this person is a sign of what's missing in your current relationship.
You had an affair because you were looking for something that's missing, either in you or in the relationship, or both. Building trust can't happen unless the underlying problems are addressed. Couples counselling might help. But just understanding our feelings and issues isn't enough. You have to actually take action. The key to restoring trust in relationships isn't talking about the right things...it's doing the right things.
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