subject: Most Relationships Don't Work Out [print this page] Many relationship coaches and books out there will sell you fluff such as:
"go to therapy to save your marriage" - What does a therapist really know? How many marriages have they really saved?
"tips to save your broken relationship" - Once its dead, move on
"tips to get your ex back" - Move on
"get her to like you more" - Either she likes you or not
And on and much more. There's a simple fact in terms of dating,
Most relationships don't work out! Let me repeat that. Most relationships don't work out!
Think about your own experiences. Think about your past relationships and dating. What happened to the majority of people that you dated? Either they dumped you or you dumped them. Very simple.
This isn't a negative or "doom and gloom" post at all. You just need to come to the realization that most relationships don't work and you need to be comfortable with that. This will prevent you from dwelling on the past, i.e. looking for ex-girlfriends,ex wives and girls who have rejected you. Look at this guys. If a woman had one million dollars, would she ever throw that away? The solution is you know they don't! A good man (to the good women) is worth several million dollars. So if she were really into you, why would she dump you? When she dumps you, she's not into you. For this very reason, you must avoid the advice that tries to "mend your broken relationships" or "get the ex back." Learn from your mistakes and move on.
You should not worry though. You will date many people before you get a good one. The key is you just need to find one.
Here's a quick sum up:
-Continue to date and put yourself out there.
-Know that the relationship could work out.
-If it works out, great!
If not, do not need worry because most relationships don't work out anyways. If they don't work out, take stock of what happened and start working on meet more people.
