subject: Heart Breaks And Reunions - How To Get Ex Back Fast [print this page] Surviving a break-up is hard for a soul in complete pain. What caused this pain is the way that either of you ended the relationship. Sure, love does have its pros and cons, but what you need to know right now is that love had always been there in your relationship. Love is a magical thing.
You cannot just get it back with a few steps when you just had one call to end it. What you have to do to get ex back fast is to follow some SOPs and you can be sure that in a few days or weeks he or she will already be thinking of you. This presents a higher chance of getting back the same, if not more, love you have lost. And who would not take that chance?
First, after an informal break up, usually including several petty fights and a chaotic battle of harsh words, you should calm yourself down. Feel all the hurt and let out all the tears. This will help calm you down faster. Then call your ex. Tell him or her that you are fine with the break up; talk about it on the phone. And if he or she does not answer it, write a letter explaining that everything that happened on that day was fine by you. Then show him or her that you can live life happily even without him or her. This is a psychological tactic designed to make the other party think about you more because immediately after the break up, he or she is certainly missing you.
After the first step, your ex would most certainly be thinking of you, of how he or she had hurt you. Fights are normal for couples - these make the relationship stronger. Take time to think about the reason for your last fight (this may even be on the day of the break up). Do loving couples fight just to hurt one another? Fights always have a deeper sense of meaning to couples, an underlying love for one another.
Take time to track the other partys moves and have a face to face meeting. His or her heart will want to retain the old relationship and having a face to face meeting with someone you have spent so much of your life with will trigger this. Start being friends again with no intimacy, physical and emotional, to which both of your hearts have been used to. Keep everything very casual, and in time he or she will not be able to hold himself or herself back any longer after a few accidental meetings or even some chats; feelings will explode like fireworks, and he or she will want to continue the past relationship.
