subject: How To Make Your New House A Home [print this page] The buying of a new home is always a delightful change and a step in a completely different direction. Whether you are a newlywed making a first time purchase or moving your family to a new place, relocating can be a bit of a shock.
In order to feel comfortable and happy in your new residence, it is necessary to make it into a place to call your own. The most important way to do this is through decoration.
Our usual belongings, pictures, and furniture are what make our homes a place of serenity and familiarity. Many people make the mistake of completely changing every item of furniture and decoration when moving into a new home.
Though it is understandable that you may want to spruce up your place with current and fashionable trimmings, you should always keep some of the familiar items and keepsakes that decorated your past residence. Family heirlooms and hand-me-downs or items from your first home together can be refurbished and mixed with more modern furnishings to create a current and homey atmosphere.
This is also a good choice for families on a tight budget, because you can reuse, recycle, and make over used items to look like something completely new. Try adding a layer of paint or varnish to the side tables that your mother gave you, or turn a used and worn pair of curtains into some new sham covers or throw pillows.
If you are not familiar with the use of a sewing machine, find a friend or neighbor that can help you rework old items into new ones. Most painting and staining projects are fairly simple; just visit your local hardware store and ask advice, if you need, on which products to purchase and the best way to complete your project.
The colors and styles of decorations you use in your new place will also have an effect on how comfortable and at home you feel when you are there. Try using soothing colors, like light earth tones, for the majority of your decorating.
Then, add pops of color and patterns here and there with curtains, pillows, interesting fabrics, or artwork. Also, focus on utilizing soft and comforting fabrics in living areas.
In the bedroom, use jersey or cotton sheets with a high thread count and a down comforter for the ultimate in relaxation. In the living or family room, have plenty of soft pillows and blankets or throws of soft fabrics available.
If you feel that you are having difficulties creating an open and inviting space, enlist the help of an interior decorator to listen to your ideas and wants. Once you have had a consultation, they will be able to design a scheme for you.
Though the decorator is the expert trained in the reworking of your home, be sure to speak up if you do not agree with all of their designs. If you are unhappy with the style, then you will definitely not feel happy and at home.
Another way to get accustomed to your new home is to meet your neighbors and become familiar with your neighborhood. Try researching any community or neighborhood parties or events.
Go for walks around the neighborhood and try to converse with others that are outside. Getting to know new people can be frightening, but if you ever need help or are having troubles, you will need to have connections with those that live around you for safety.
If you have a nearby community center or town hall, become involved in classes, programs, or meetings there. You will be able to make new friends with those who live in your community, and you will become more familiar with the area.
If you have children, you should always research the school districts in the surrounding area before purchasing a home. This will ensure the comfort and peace of your children, especially if they have a difficult time adapting to new environments.
School systems where both the parents and community are very involved tend to have more activities. Your children will have social opportunities to make new friends in the area.
Though all of these things are important, what really makes your house a home is the loving environment you create there. Your family will be able to adapt to a new place quickly if you make moving in and settling in a cooperative effort.
