subject: informal barbecue [print this page] Dear Abby: I'm being married soon, and as a bride-to-be, I have been very laid-back and agreeable to all of the arrangements my mother has made.
At first, I asked if we could have just a small, informal barbecue. She said no so now we're having an all-out affair.My sister will be my maid of honour. I'm letting her wear whatever she wants. I have argued with my mother about only one thing: I have a beautiful, simple wedding dress. I want to wear a pair of sneakers with lace shoestrings because I will be on my feet all day.
I don't want to wear heels because those christian Louboutin Shoes are not made for comfort. I think the sneakers with the lace "accents" will be very cute and nice.Although this is really the only thing I am asking for myself, my mother is acting as if I'll shame the family. I am not doing the "garter" thing, so no one will even see the shoes.
I did agree with my mother that I'd wear proper wedding shoes for the ceremony and formal reception, but that wasn't good enough.I do not want to be wearing those ceremony louboutin shoes from 2:30 p.m. until 12:30 a.m.
Abby, my mother will not compromise. Why shouldn't I be comfortable at my own wedding? She's acting like I'm committing some horrible sin, and threatening I'll forever be the laughingstock of New Jersey. All I want is to be comfortable at my own wedding with my favorite shoes brand of Christian Louboutin Shoes. Please help me put this into perspective.
