subject: The Ideas Behind Healing Marriage And Mending Broken Hearts [print this page] During the course of marriage, it happens that the excitement goes missing and then the marriage starts to become a boring affair and couples require the necessity of healing marriage and pulling it out of boredom. However, during these times it is important that couples stay committed to each other and do not fall into the trap of having an affair with someone. Such things can lead to serious consequences like divorce or long-term loss in trust between couples.
The main thing to do during time like this is to look out for opportunities that can make your life exciting and add the required spice to your life. It calls for responsible behavior on the part of any one Individual to seize the opportunity and try to bring the required excitement into their lives. An atmosphere of trust also needs to be created going forward. All this has to do with the fundamental ideas of assurance, faith, responsibility, and similar ideas that are the basic building blocks of marriage.
The couples take vows to stick along with each other through all difficulties in life. They promise to deal with each other's problems and stand behind each other as and when required. All such vows are taken by the couples for a happy married life. All such vows are applicable to the couples during the honeymoon period but once that gets over the new period related to, responsibility becomes known.
The couples then have to deal with numerous responsibilities that force them to change their outlook towards life. They find themselves in a spot of bother and cannot take so many responsibilities. Some of the couples break away from each other during this period to start a new life whereas, others manage to hold on to the last straw of faith and existence, thereby pulling themselves through the challenges of responsibility. This takes a toll on the personal lives of the couples as they loose all the important ingredients of life such as excitement, fun, romance, and get devoid of these ideas.
Such a period is called the boring period of marriage. There is a feeling amongst couples that they have gained little from this marriage and lost a lot. They start to think of new ideas outside their married lives. A feeling creeps into them that they can find a better partner and soul mate to get that required happiness and warmth in their life. However, this is a big mistake and calls for healing marriage to save their lives.
The couples should put themselves away from the idea that they have not married the kind of people they desire but have married illusions and images. The basic idea of marriage should be brought in front of them. Those are the ideas of trust, respect, cooperation, and commitment to pull the ship of marriage, out of the rough weather and bring in the required excitement through any common activity that can clear the way ahead for the ship to sail through and reach its destination.
Through the process of healing marriage, there is a big possibility that couples can resolve their issues, get over any misunderstandings they had, and fix their broken hearts.
Forgiveness plays a major role towards healing marriage. It is not right to overlook your partner's mistakes but it is important to analyze the reasons behind such an attitude shown by your partner. However, it is important to forgive and forget to have a happy life ahead.
