subject: Second Chance Dating - Dating Your Wife After She Cheated [print this page] Dating your wife after she cheated on you is one of those things that most men never envision happening. You, my friend, are not most men. You love your wife deeply and can't imagine spending a lifetime without waking up by her side every morning.
Waking up with the fact that spending a single day without your wife is like facing the four seasons of loneliness, as from a line in a song. Why would you stop your heart from being devoted to your wife? Why wouldn't you just close your eyes and feel your heartbeat? Let go and love. You don't lose by loving; you lose by holding back.
So, what do you need to know about dating your wife after she cheated on you so that your relationship doesn't end up right where you left off?
1)Be the man she fell in love with all over again. You know what life was like when you were both getting to know each other and trying to impress? It's time to return to those days. In fact, your dating life and your marriage should be filled with days when you're both trying to impress each other. It's when you stop trying to impress or surprise that relationships get old, stale, and tired. These are the times when she might begin to feel a little taken for granted. If you want to avoid that this time around keep the surprises coming and be your charming best.
2)Keep it easy. Chill out. Don't push the pressure button - no need to rush. Just keep the boat sailing smoothly so you'll both enjoy the cruise. It is important to cherish each moment with someone who already became a part of you. In this world of change, maintain the things that don't - memories.
3)Have a plan of some sort. While you don't have to have a mission statement and work doggedly towards a specific goal, you need to have a goal and a general direction you are working towards by dating. Setting goals gives you a little time to figure out if you want to move forward and get there or move on without her. It's much better for both of you than lingering in limbo and never going anywhere. You need to be going somewhere as a couple or you need to part ways. It really is as simple as that in love and marriage - especially when dating your cheating wife for the second time around.
