subject: Surviving A Breakup - The Secret Ingredient To Surviving any Breakup [print this page] Author: JD Dean Author: JD Dean
The key to surviving a breakup is you. Okay, that sounds like pretty obvious advice but did you know the majority of people who are involved in breakups totally forget this and act in a desperate and panicked fashion.
Immediately your chances of getting your ex back are shattered because one of the worst and ugliest human traits is desperate and needy behavior. It's not attraction fodder. When we say you are to key to surviving the breakup then it's got to do with your posture and demeanor.
How you act when asked to leave the relationship will determine your chances of a successful reunion later on. Most splits are one-sided and someone always gets hurt more than the other. If this is you we feel you but even though it hurts, don't harm your chances of getting them back by behaving irrationally now.
In this article, we'll talk about your posture and demeanor and how it can help in getting that glint in your ex partner's eyes back for you.
Surviving A Breakup Tips
People like being around positive people...that's a fact. It's a human trait which when understood can move you ahead in many areas of life. By walking with your head bowed and criticizing everyone and anything then you'll soon be labeled negative and no fun to be around.
How can being postive help in surviving a break up and put you on the road to winning your ex back? Well, here's a scenario to consider. The reaction most expect from people spurned is one of emotional disaster, anger, panic and desperation.
By playing these out you are just giving people what they expect. Do you notice how people one considers friends suddenly disappear after a break up. It's because they feel uncomfortable. They don't know what to say. They don't want to be caught in the middle of a war of the roses.
You're Being Watched
You are under the spotlight. People are expecting you to react. Your outward personality is going to be reflected by the way you are feeling inside. Some say you need to express your emotions and maybe that's true moments after being dumped, but the way you carry yourself following that heart-wrenching moment will impact your chances of getting back with your ex.
Think about this...if act with a positive demeanor people are going to start feeling more comfortable around you. The likelihood of this getting back to your ex will be big. In most cases, then they are going to wonder why you are in such a happy frame of mind, after all, you got dumped didn't you?
Can you see where this is going. A happy and positive demeanor will give you posture, is infectious in nature, is great in helping you survive a break up and best of all, you regain lost ground in the posture stakes. But it needs to start with you.About the Author:
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