subject: How To Approach Women Confidently - 2 Things To Always Keep In Mind [print this page] Time and time again, guys get hit with the opportunity to approach a sexy, beautiful woman and pass it up. Every time that you allow yourself to pass up approaching a woman, you are just making it harder on yourself. When you give into whatever negative thoughts that enter your mind and miss out on the possibility of connecting with a woman, you end up making the whole dating thing a lot harder than it has to be.
For some guys, approaching a woman that they don't already know is practically impossible. They talk themselves out of it by telling themselves that she would just say no. Well, you really do not know until you actually walk up to a woman, do you?
Here are 2 things to keep in mind that will help you approach women with confidence:
1. Most women are not going to be cold hearted vixens that shoot you down.
I think a lot of guys get this picture in their mind that they are going to walk up to a woman, and she is just going to reach into their chest and rip their heart out. The reality is, that most women that you approach are going to be friendly and even if they do brush you off, it's usually nothing more than a brief moment and they are not going to make you feel bad or anything like that. What you also have to keep in mind is, the more times that you actually approach women, the better you are going to get at getting a conversation started.
2. You do NOT have to have a perfect line in mind when you approach a woman.
While it helps to have an idea on how to open a conversation with a woman, a lot of guy gets trapped into thinking that they need some perfect line of words that will just make a woman feel an immediate pull towards them. If they cannot think of anything, then they don't approach her. You will get a lot more confidence when you realize that you do NOT have to be perfect when you approach a woman. Seriously, the moment you drop the idea that you have to be perfect to get a woman's attention, most of the pressure will just drop off. And like I said before, you will gain confidence and get better the more often that you approach women and learn what works and what doesn't.
