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When it comes to picking up Serbian women, make no mistake, it can be an incredibly complicated and challenging test. However, the rewards can be high as they are among the most stunning I have seen anywhere in the world; being tall, slim, curvaceous, and downright sexy. When visiting the main pedestrian walking streets in Belgrade or Novi Sad, for example, one will be shocked at the quality of women; walking up and down, as if they were in a fashion show. They also tantalize you further as they pose in bikinis on the beach (in Montenegro, for example), taking photos of each other. They love flaunting their hot bodies, and flirting with spellbound men.
With respect to their more inner qualities, they give the appearance of being more serious, relationshipstyle girls, not sleeping around (not obviously, at least). Many seem to settle down into family life very quickly, or are in some kind of a relationship. It is bizarre to see so many girls who are partying without boyfriends constantly texting that someone special throughout the evening. However, this whole image of solid social structure was thrown into doubt when a local bartenders phone was sounding nonstop from possessed girls he would constantly sleep with ( and brutally kick out of his bed in a haste when he had reached fulfillmenthe said this only made them want him even more). As an outsider, it is hard to know exactly what is going on, but from my experience, there is definitely a small percentage of local girls who are crazy enough to pursue casual fornication, however, the majority are much harder work. They can definitely be worth the wait as they are amazingly sensual and fiery in the bedroom.
Other personality traits they share include being very approachable to new people; having a high level of confidence, a polite demeanor, and an excellent command of the English language. They are also very switched on, fostering an entertaining conversation. Furthermore, I get the feeling that you must wait for them to choose youand let them direct proceedings somewhatbefore you can really get anywhere, meaning that you kind of have to hang around them and see what happens. Beware! They are temperamental; make one wrong move and they will tune off or even in some cases exact their wrath on you if you have been a bad boy.
Serbian culture
In terms of sleeping around, the Serbian culture tends to steer away from onenightstands, instead pursuing a more elongated dating timeline. There are little open displays of affection shown by couples in public. It almost seems as though the religious undertones push intimacy into the underground. However, one does definitely get the feeling though that the locals are playing around somewhat. It is just harder as a foreigner (particularly one there only for a short time) to get into the scene.
The locals are proud of their culture and naturally feel more comfortable speaking their own language; thus, also putting foreigners at a disadvantage to local men who are furthermore relatively good looking.
Nonetheless, Serbians clearly love the U.S., evidenced by the large amount who either visit or live there. There is a large population of Serbs living in Chicago.
Looking at the local clubs, many have separated tables where groups gather around rather than on a mixed dancefloor or open bar. The music can be overbearingly loud and features their traditional music. In some places, there can be shared bathrooms, making this a prime area to mingle.
Specific tips to picking up Serbian women
TIP 1: When at a bar, club or caf, position yourself at a table next to a group of girls you like, to better facilitate interaction.
Alternatively, it is also recommended to approach those girls sitting on benches at the main squares, pedestrianized streets, etc.
Actually opening Serbian women is relatively stressfree and can be done by simply asking something like, Where are you from?, Are you from Belgrade or Novi Sad?, or, Can I say hello? You can further go onto to ask questions such as, What do you think of Belgrade?, What do you think of Serbian guys?, and, What is your favorite American city?
If they ask you where youre from, then the signs are positive.
I would pace things relatively calmly in the beginning, especially physically speaking. Try to get into that laidback frame of mind from the start, maybe even employing a swagger walk when hitting the streets, slowing the tempo down dramatically.
TIP 2: Build rapport by mentioning how you like their country. They are very proud of it.
Further build rapport by talking about Only Fools and Horses. They love this show. There is even an Only Fools and Horses bar on the main walking street in Novi Sad.
TIP 3: When they give you a window of opportunity, youd better take it, then and there, or risk losing the girl forever.
Specifically, Serbian girls may suggest an activitysuch as visiting the main stage at the EXIT festivalto continue the evening or offer another time and place to meet. If you are there only for a limited period in their town, and you cant go back with them on the evening, make sure you at least try to meet them for a coffee the next day to push things further and discuss the logistics of potentially meeting again.
Many times Serbian girls will suggest meeting at a place that is difficult to go to (or endure), like a folk music venue or an obscure stage at a music festival, as a kind of test.
TIP 4: Make them believe they are the one, even if only for the evening.
A local sexologist passed on this piece of advice to me and it means devoting your complete attention towards them.
TIP 5: Keep hanging around them for as long as possible, wearing them down.
Employing this tactic means waiting for them to switch and decide in their own mind that they finally want you. This can require a relatively high amount of persistence and perseverance from your side. It may mean that it is only possible with certain girls if you can stay in Serbia for longer periods.
TIP 6: Become accepted and on good terms with the local guys.
The local girls will see you as validated if you get along with local, respected guys. Seeing you around for longer periods, generally, will help local girls feel more comfortable with you.
TIP 7: Try to separate your lead from the group and get physical
Balkan women have an uncontrollable sensual side which when ignited can explode into a passion of lust. Try turning them on by touching (or kissing) the back (or side) of their neck or even their ears, for example.
TIP 8: Be sure to go to Serbian travel destinations and music festivals.
Serbian girls are more likely to let their hair down when on vacation (at for example, Montenegro) and local music festivals (including EXIT, Gua trumpet festival, Belgrade Beer Fest).
