subject: Does Disloyalty To One's Partner Always Lead To Separation? [print this page] It is a common perspective that most cases of infidelity ended up with separation among couples nowadays. Most of these couple believes that separation is the best answer for infidelity. But, is separation really the answer?
No, not really. There are many relationships where cheating is discovered and uncovered and the relationship still manages to work. Of course it takes an awful lot of that four letter word: work to make the relationship survive.
Can your relationship survive cheating? It's possible. Here are a few things that can help you forgive a cheating partner and save your relationship in the process.
Empathize
Try to assess your relationship according to your partner's view. Figure out why it leads to infidelity and the reasons why this happen.
By doing this, you would be able to understand the situation why it leads to disloyalty. You will find out what cause him to be disloyal to you. It's easy to forgive someone when you know and understand why he did that in the first place.
Acknowledge
You have to understand that it's not always your partner who has a problem in your relationship. You have to consider the fact that you might have done something that lead him to be unfaithful to you. This is a wake up call for you that you have to do something to have it fix.
And not only that, acknowledge the positive things your husband did in your marriage. He may have done something not agreeable but I'm sure he did some good things as well. This is an easy way for you to forgive your husband.
Be Positive and Look Forward for the Future
Now is the perfect time to stop living in the past. From this point forward you need to face forward in your relationship. Stop opening up old wounds and arguments. They only serve to fracture the relationship further. It's time to forgive, forget, and move on or take a step back.
By having plans and goals for your future is one way that could help strengthen your relationship as married couple. This would also help you rebuild your trust with each other. And definitely, no one can think about of disloyalty again if both of you are occupied in pursuing the goals and plans of your marriage.
