subject: Stand Out Through Your Relationships [print this page] . People try a variety of ways to stay in people's thoughts, both physically and on the Web. You may do article marketing, newsletters, email blasts, and media marketing to keep your Web presence fresh. Alternately, you may send postcards, letters, holiday cards, or even birthday cards to build relationships and stay connected with people physically. Most of these methods are getting old and tired, but forming good relationships enables you to connect with people in creative new ways.
Be Creative with Your Connections
Do you send out holiday cards every year to your prospects? So do most businesses. You don't stay fresh in people's minds by doing the same thing that everyone else does. Find new ways to be creative with your connections, and catch your clients' minds in a unique way. By forming good relationships with people, you'll have a fresh pool of creative ideas to draw upon to keep your relationships dynamic and unique.
Consider this example: Carrie Wilkerson spoke with my Mastermind Group and talked about how she uses social media to build relationships. Carrie mentioned that one of her contacts talks on Twitter every day about how he walks his dog in the morning. He mentions the dog by name, and even the type of dog. When Carrie wanted to make a connection with this man, she didn't just send him a note or a card; she sent a dog toy for his dog. She mentioned his dog by name, and found a toy that the dog would appreciate, based on the information that this man shared about his dog.
This showed the man that Carrie listened, and was interested in him as a person - not just him as a business contact. This is a fantastic strategy for solidifying relationships, and as a way to stay connected with people that will actually stay fresh in their thoughts. That man probably won't remember everyone who sent him a card, but he'll definitely remember the woman who sent his dog a toy.
Use Your Relationships to form Unique Connections
Your relationships with people provide valuable connection opportunities. By building good relationships, you set yourself up for opportunities you might not otherwise have. When you build a good relationship with someone, for example, you're much more likely to be set up with the friend of a friend as a new business contact. People are more likely to refer business contacts that they like, than pushy sales-oriented people who don't care about them as a person.
Use your relationships with people to form unique connections. Don't just be the sales person, or the person with the coaching product, or that consultant. Be a friend; be the person who sent the dog a toy, or the person who's always asking about the kids or the wife. By building these unique connections with people, you're getting into their lives in a real and meaningful way, and you'll be in their minds if a fantastic new business connection comes up, or if they remember that they know someone who might be a good match for your business.
