subject: Flirting Tips For Men-Tips For Flirting for Men [print this page] THREE FLIRTING TIPS FOR MEN THREE FLIRTING TIPS FOR MEN
Flirting is what makes the difference between a friendship and a relationship, so memorize these three flirting tips I'm going to share with you:
1. Tip Number 1: Make a Physical Connection. Verbal flirting is OK , but you can flirt verbally all night, without ever coming to a point. What you want to do is learn to flirt physically. Be discreet and take it slow. Use your common sense. When the conversation turns to something especially meaningful, reach for her hand and use your touch to emphasize how amusing or interesting the topic is. If you detect any awkwardness or reluctance at all, gently let go and try again when the moment seems right. But if you feel a connection, a chemistry, squeeze her hand gently, and then let go. Wait for her to touch you somehow, somewhere. If she doesn't, you're back to Stage 1. If she does touch you, you're ready to escalate the contact from there. She's saying you're safe, which nowadays is a huge compliment to a man. You make her feel warm and loved. Let the physicality build from there.
2. Tip Number 2: Try role reversal. We love it when a man flirts with us this way, by reversing our roles. You, as the guy, say something defensive that the woman is usually expected to say, like "So are you ever going to ask me out or not? or "Hey, are you pretending to like football just so I'll like you?" There's an underlying sexual playfulness there that women can't get enough of.
3. Tip Number 3: Use a prop to make yourself flirtatiously interesting. Women are often more naturally flirtatious than men, but sometimes need to be helped along. So men, wear a provocative T-shirt, a flashy pendant or watch, even a bandanna anything that sets you apart (in a cool way, of course) and gets you noticed. The woman who wants to flirt with you will seize your prop (verbally and maybe literally) to initiate some flirting of her own.
