subject: Dating Tips For Giving Your Cheating Husband A Second Chance [print this page] Are you looking for excellent advice and dating tips for dating your cheating husband? You might be thinking you need a good stiff drink or kick in the head instead. Believe it or not this could be one of the best decisions you've ever made.
Deciding whether or not to give your husband another chance is not always easy. Even the largest and the most unwanted insects manage to find small cracks in the walls of our homes to sneak in and make our lives miserable. Some of us can say the same thing about our ex-lover who had managed to sneak into our lives by convincing us that they abandoned their jerk status and deserve a second chance.
Uncertainty can be a big hindrance as well. Change always involves behind the certainty of rut, the predictability of stalemate, and the safety of the familiar. Be ready to face the uncertainty of not knowing whether the marriage will survive. Real change usually won't happen until both persons experience the harsh reality of being uncertain. But if the fire is still up and burning, giving a second chance will help you determine the future outcome of the relationship.
1)Let him impress you. More importantly, be impressed by him and let him know it. He wants to impress you. On some level he needs to. Acknowledge his efforts, his progress, and his success. Avoid condescension. This is a time when you want to point out his strengths and make him feel as though you are on his side. Get in the habit now and you will have little trouble following through with this positive trend as you build a new and improved relationship together.
2)Modify the way you look at him. Do not look at him as he's a dreadful person. Treat him with dignity and he will treat you the same. Be open to conversation just like the first time you meet him.
3)Determine whether second chance will really work. It's not an assurance that love is merrier the second time around, sometimes second chance is more worst that the first. No more time to waste. You can feel if the relationship will certainly work as the conversation gets deeper and deeper.
4)Be your charming best. This isn't only his second chance. This is your opportunity for a second chance with the man you love too. You want to remind him of all the reasons he loves you too. The fact that he wants a second chance with you and is willing to work to save your marriage is a good sign but it doesn't mean you have everything "made in the shade". You're going to have to roll up your sleeves and work to make things go great this time around too. Your first date the second time around is a great place to get started.
