subject: Want to Approach Women? Then Don't Make This Fatal Mistake! [print this page] Most men can't approach womenMost men can't approach women. It's true. And it's not because there are some invisible physical walls in their way. It's because they are afraid of them. I have to admit, women are potentially dangerous. I mean, they may yell at you, reject you, ignore you, laugh at you, slap you etc. Most guys can't deal with a woman's negative response to them, especially if they are attracted to her. Why?
And that's how we get to the fatal mistake that I was telling you about. Remember this fact: if you assume that she's your friend when you're actually strangers, or if you expect her to behave in a loving way towards you just because you're attracted to her, you will almost certainly end up heartbroken and very disappointed if you approached her and she didn't respond well.
The possibility of that taking place will stop you from approaching her. If your initial expectation of what's going to happen is too high, that will make it really difficult for you to approach women because you'll always be worried that they may reject you and break your heart. On the other hand, if you don't invest too many thoughts and emotions into what's going to happen, you'll be able to keep your cool and deal with it much, much easier.
So if you want to approach women, the basic idea is to avoid imagining an idealistic outcome in your own mind and to just have a "come what may" attitude about the whole thing.
Want to Approach Women? Then Don't Make This Fatal Mistake!
