subject: Afraid of Women Because You Don't Know How to Open Up a Conversation? The Solution! [print this page] If you have no idea what to say after "hi" then you will almost certainly be reluctant to walk up to a beautiful girl and start a conversation. A lot of men who are afraid of women have this fear in part because they falsely believe that since they don't have something original to say, an attractive woman wouldn't be interested in talking to them. Here's what you can do about it.
Imagine living in the world that existed 30000 years ago. Back then, men didn't have the concept of "something original to say to a woman in order to attract her". How come these guys managed to attract women and have sex with them? I mean, we're the living proof that our forefathers were definitely not afraid of women, even though they didn't have "the proper pick-up lines" in their bag of tricks...That should give you a little food for thought.
But what's the lesson here? Well, if you're afraid of women because you believe that you lack the "right words" to attract them, then I have great news for you: Studies proved over and over again that about 93% of the meaning of a communication is not delivered through words. It's delivered through body-language, voice tone, facial expressions, attitude etc. The actual words that you use account for less than 10% of what you communicate!
So if "not having something original to say" is your favorite justification for being afraid of women and for not approaching them, you'll have to start thinking of a new one.
Now, leaving the jokes aside, I perfectly understand the fact that you're not afraid of women just because you believe that you have nothing good to say to them. The problem is far more complex than that.
Afraid of Women Because You Don't Know How to Open Up a Conversation? The Solution!
