subject: Tips To Get Your Ex Back When You Broke Up With Them [print this page] How to go about getting an ex back is a frequent question. But this question is not always easy to answer because a lot can depend on why you broke up. Lets say you were the one that broke up with them, so lets discuss what you can do to get your ex back.
Think about what you did to break up with your ex, be honest with yourself so you know exactly what you did. If you want to get your ex back, could you make any changes necessary to make yourself more desirable to your ex. If your answer is no, then you should not be trying to get them back, you can almost guarantee you will break up again.
If you really think you can change or stop doing whatever it was that caused your break up then go ahead and pursue your ex. Your first step would be to acknowledge to them that you made a mistake and apologize from the heart. Do not just apologize for the sake of getting them back; make it real, you have to mean it.
See if your ex would be willing to meet with you somewhere neutral to talk about your future. This is not a time for arguing with each other, let your ex have their say in the matter and listen to them. Letting them express their feelings about you and the break up will help them get it off their chest and move on.
You may not make any real progress this first meeting but you at least broke the ice. Try for another meeting in the near future to talk some more if need be. This would be a good first step at getting back with your ex and hopefully all goes well.
Tips To Get Your Ex Back When You Broke Up With Them
