subject: Divorce From A Cheating Wife: How Can I Bail Out Before It's Too Late? [print this page] My wife may have cheated but I'd do anything to stop my divorce. Is this how you feel about your marriage? Some men really do take their marriage vows seriously - even the, for better or worse part of those vows.
Of course, knowing this doesn't make it any easier to face the end of your marriage. But, calling off a divorce can be a little more complicated than anyone wants to admit. How do I know when it's too late to stop my divorce?
Why Should I be the One Doing all the Work?
You may not be the culprit but who's going to take the first move to save your marriage? Don't let your pride get in the way.
That's a good question. The problem is that your cheating wife may not really know what she wants. It's quite likely that you married a woman you'd have never thought would cheat on you. That means that it probably took something pretty big, at least in her mind, to get her to take the plunge and actually commit the act.
She may be very confused right now and not trust her feelings about you or the other man at all. This means that you're going to have to put in a little bit of work, time, and effort to convince her that where she really belongs is with you.
How Would I know?
Whether or not the divorce has been processed, It's not yet too late to start over if both parties agree to regain what was lost and add up what is better.
Sometimes you need the cold hard slap of reality, an ever so unpleasant one, in order to come to your collective senses. This means that she may need that dose of reality too in order to forgive, forget, and start over.
Take the Courage to Fix It
You can't deny the conflict existing between the two of you. As they said, you can't experience happiness if you won't recognize pain. You don't have to feign any emotion just to show everything's going to be okay. You know that you can't pick up the pieces and put it back.
There's no way you could bring back the past; her unfaithfulness already left a mark. But you can trace back where you've done wrong choices and decisions. You can have it corrected and so to make a better outcome.
