subject: Self Esteem - A Call To Confidence (Part 1) - Motivational Speaker (NNOS Studios of Ohio) [print this page] You got itYou got it. Let me tell you how. And you're hearing it right from the horse's mouth. I was at the bottom of this can. Now I'm close to what I determine the top to be. In my eyes, that would be absolute confidence, success, and humility.
We all know what "lack of confidence" is, so I'm not going to give you my story. I'll just give you the key and show you where to use it.
We are a product of our self-image. In other words, we are what we are because of what we believe ourselves to be. The image we hold of ourselves gets programmed into our subconscious mind and then our brain takes it as an instruction to find or make that. The problem is that most of us are unaware that this is how it works so we ruin it for others and don't correct it in ourselves. Because we don't know that it works this way, particularly when we're kids, we let others create this image of what we are. The system still works the same way, in that the image held gets imprinted onto the subconscious mind.
So the formula is very simple. Drinking it is the difficult part. Kinda. The key is to create the image you want of yourself, and hold it in your thoughts. Focus on it...feel it.
You must get precise...no exceptions. Get a piece of paper and start writing. There is a psychological reason for this. Figure out everything of how you want to be. How you handle certain situations, how you talk to people, what/who you look like when you talk/walk, how you eat and exercise, etc. Figure out also how you want people to treat you. Determine what your occupation is or what kind of company or car you own. This should take you no less than 30 minutes to do initially. If it does, you're not being precise enough and you might as well hang it up.
You will add to this image over the next few days things as they come to your mind...as you see different people/things. After you write the initial description, proceed to "Self Esteem - A Call To Confidence (Part 2)" for the next instructions.
Dennis Andrew
NNOS Studios Motivational Speakers Division
Self Esteem - A Call To Confidence (Part 1) - Motivational Speaker (NNOS Studios of Ohio)
