subject: Blair Gorman Speaks: Relationships And Numerology [print this page] According to master numerologist Blair Gorman, compatibility of couples is one of the prime areas where his expertise in the field is consulted for. And not only him, but many other renowned numerologists also agree to the fact that the majority of cases they get are people looking to validate the fact that whether their current relationship is going to see them through for the rest of their life or not. According to the science, compatibility between two individuals can be understood by studying their birth charts, and seeing what kind of strengths and weaknesses the alliance brings forth.
The basic premise of this concept is that each individual is different, and has his/her own set of qualities. That being said, the methodology followed by most numerologists, according to Blair Gorman, is to first get a brief 'character sketch' of sorts, of the person seeking the consultation, and then of his/her partner. This is followed by a final analysis of what kind of a future is most likely from the relationship. One needs to be really very focused while taking such counsel, and open to the kind of problems that are faced, as well as his/her own shortcomings. True, numerology is very accurate in these circumstances, but if you are ready to work upon certain areas that are weak, you might make the relationship last longer than what is in the charts. All it takes is for you to be accepting of your own self.
Taking an example, the first important step is to find out the life lesson number of both the individuals. This is done by adding the numbers of the full date of birth, and then reducing it to a single digit. For instance,if a person's date of birth is 3rd February, 1961, his/her life lesson number would be 3+2+1+9+6+1 = 22, which turns out as 4. Individuals with this life lesson number have a tendency to be very conscious of stability in a relationship. They are very practical, and thus have to make extra efforts to ensure that their companionship does not become boring for the other person.
